Hi, I’m kevin Martin. I am a Certified Transactional Analyst dedicated to helping you achieve greater autonomy—the freedom to be yourself, be spontaneous, and live consciously in the present, rather than being driven by outdated patterns. If you find yourself stuck in the same arguments, repeating unhelpful behaviours, or feeling like you’re playing a role in a “life script” you didn’t write, I can help. I specialise in assisting people to navigate anxiety, life transitions, and self-doubt.
My Approach
The philosophy at the heart of my practice is simple: “I’m OK, You’re OK.” I approach every client with mutual respect and a belief in their inherent worth and potential for change.
In our collaborative space, we will develop a shared language to understand your interactions with yourself and others. We will explore your ego states (the inner Parent, Adult, and Child parts of you) to see how they influence your communication, thoughts, and feelings in the here and now.
We focus on:
- Identifying “Drivers” and “Scripts”: Uncovering the unconscious childhood decisions or messages (“drivers”) that might be limiting your choices today, causing stress or anxiety.
- Improving Communication: Analysing how you communicate to foster clearer, more authentic connections and stop unhelpful “games” or crossed messages.
- Getting the “Strokes” You Need: Ensuring you understand your need for recognition and acceptance, helping you seek out positive “strokes” (validation) and boost your self-esteem in healthy ways.
My goal is to empower you to switch from being “programmed” to being proactive, making conscious, healthy decisions from your balanced Adult ego state.
I work extensively with codependents, trauma and survivors of narcissistic abuse. It takes courage to acknowledge your pain and ask for help. If my approach resonates with your needs, I invite you to schedule a free 20-minute consultation call.
I offer a combination of psychological and spiritual guidance, helping the individual gain enough ego strength and awareness to embark on the Hero’s journey of spiritual development.
We can discuss what you hope to achieve, answer any questions you have about my practice, and determine whether this is the right therapeutic space for you to begin your healing journey.
This is for individuals who want to self-actualise, embracing their true selves and following a path of creativity, inner knowing, and purpose. We will explore the deeper conscious and unconscious aspects of one’s egoic structure and how the ego defends against the deep core wounds inflicted upon us by our parents, society, and culture. With greater awareness and ego-strengthening, we can begin to access our true self, accept our negative feelings and beliefs, and work towards autonomy, divinity, and transformation. For those who have already embarked on the journey, we can discuss and explore the spiritual life, their aim and aspirations, the struggles and obstacles one faces being awake and how wider world issues are impacting us. The attainment of intellectual, instinctual, emotional, and energetic balance is a core aspiration and goal as we work together. Everything takes place in a confidential and supportive space. THIS IS NOT for people who want to ease their anxiety and suffering by adopting positive thinking or spiritually bypassing without doing the courageous, extremely difficult, painful yet joyful work it requires.
Sessions
I offer one-to-one face-to-face sessions at my home in Windsor, or I can work on multiple online platforms, such as Zoom, Microsoft Teams and WhatsApp. I offer a variety of ways to work with me
- Assessment – a Compulsory one off one-hour session to evaluate suitability, goals, relational patterns and health.
- One-off Consultation– Arrange one-off sessions from time to time to discuss present problems and difficulties you are facing
- Teaching– we can work on a monthly basis, exploring and developing spiritual techniques and ideas, cultivating and integrating a deeper spiritual practice through disciplined commitment, meditation and acceptance.
- Ego, Shadow and self-Activation–weekly sessions based on an allocated space which you will own, helping to widen one`s awareness and capacity to contain our negative emotions as we finally start to separate emotional and psychological from our parental influences and relational patterns
ONLINE
Assessment and weekly sessions are 1 hour and cost £70. Use the CONTACT page on this site to get in touch and schedule a session. I do ask for a brief overview of your present circumstances, your spiritual journey, and why you feel we can work together.
Disclaimer
I am a trained Transactional Analysis therapist, CBT counsellor, Metaphysical Practitioner and Transformational Life Coach. I fundamentally work on a spiritual basis, offering advice and guidance to explore psychological, relationship, or career issues. I am not working as a mental health practitioner, and everyone must use their own discretion and judgment to decide if this is the support they require. Under no circumstances will I be held liable or responsible for any direct or indirect damages arising out of the use of, or inability to use, the information I share.
