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    Loyalty Bonds

    In Transactional Analysis (TA), loyalty bonds (often referred to as Invisible Loyalties or Scripted Loyalties) are the powerful, often unconscious attachments we maintain to our family of origin or...

    Narcisstic Transformation

    in a genuine feeling of sadness and meaningful longing. When abandoned or disrespected by others, the behaviour looks...

    Narcsisstic Essays

    The concept of taking oneself as the love object is a perverted form of sexuality with its own...

    Psychosexual Fixations

    Freud argued that if conflicts in each stage are not resolved, sexual energy can become “fixated” and show...

    Demon Lover

    Rape in our culture is something that can't be ignored. When the man in the feminine is repressed,...

    Ego Ideal

    The ego ideal leads to primary narcissism, where the child is unable to give up the satisfaction and security once experienced. He is not...

    Belief and Imagination

    Belief rests as a possibility, not a certainty, yet it produces an emotional state that goes with certainty, as one can't rid oneself of...

    Being Seen : Emerging from Psychic Retreats

    An essential aspect of narcissism is being seen as the centre of attention. Self-consciousness can become acute and anxious when a child loses the...

    Delicious Abundance

    Some parents have a vice-like grasp and hold of their children and force them into a pre-moulded image to fulfil their narcissist demands and...

    Ego Death and Stages of Ego Death

    What is the Ego? The ego is the image we hold of ourselves, our core beliefs, relational patterns and perceptions which allow us to...

    The Central Ego

    We are all object-related by our own nature, the self in relation to the other and the relationship between. The structure for achieving self-expression...

    Loyalty Bonds